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Q: Please Help! Having Problems with Ex-Girlfriend!!!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: Well bro first of all people that don’t have to work for anything they get usually fail when they are faced with that. Second if you guys dated a lot in between then there’s defiantly a chance. Just be upfront with her on the subject and hope for the best. Good luck bro
Q: Feeling Really Strange around Ex…Please Help Me Everyone! So Depressed!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: WHAT THE FRENCH TOAST!!!!! God does not let people down, what your mouth
He blesses all kinds of people and that is not for you to judge
Yes you should stay far away from her because you are not stable minded
WHO cares what color she is.. COLOR does not matter, you are showing your immature side once again
Yes all kinds of relationships work out
You should stop bothering her and not you are not in her league
Seriously, find happiness elsewhere and stop beating a dead horse
Q: Need Help with Feelings Towards Ex! Please Help!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: It seems like your feelings for her have less to do with who she is as a person, and more to do with some ideal lifestyle that you have for yourself. It doesn’t seem like you want to be with her for the right reasons.
But…
I just ended a 10 year marriage after New Years 2009 (check my question history), and I am already in a much better place because I did the stuff I’m going to tell you.
If you want to win her back or to get over her, first you have to stop wallowing around in self-pity. Pick yourself up by your bootstraps, and convince yourself that this is the right thing. If you are still in contact with her, tell her that you’ve decided that this break-up is the best thing, and it’s time you both go your seperate ways. I know it’s counter-intuitive, but this will work — trust me.
Go out and get yourself some nice clothes — new cologne, new deodorant, a new haircut — become the man all girls would want, including her. Walk it, talk it, become it.
Start dating. This will make you feel more confident about yourself, and she will see how well you’re doing for yourself and it will pique her curiosity. You don’t want to get a hold of her and say “hey, I’ve been going on a lot of dates.” That’s not the point. The point is to work on YOU.
After a month of not talking to her, give her a call. If she doesn’t answer, don’t leave a voice mail. Wait a couple of days, then try it again. If after a week, she still doesn’t answer, then put it off for another couple of weeks and try again. If she does answer, then be cordial. Ask her how she’s doing — don’t rehash any old issues, keep the conversation positive. Ask her if she has 30 to 60 minutes to sit down for coffee or something. Nothing too involving. If she declines, then say OK. If she agrees, then set up a time and place. Once there, stick to the 30 minutes, and keep it fun. At some time during that date, make it a point to touch her — like she has something in her hair, or lint on her shirt. That will re-establish an affectionate relationship.
At the end of the date, let her know you had a fun time. If she would like to do it again, then accept. If not, then try calling her in a couple of days, just like before.
On the 2nd date, be a little more involved; go out to dinner, a museum, etc. At the end of the date, ask if she would like to come over for a few minutes to listen to a new CD you got or something. If she declines, say something like, “you’re not afraid of a little music, are you?”
If she accepts, once you’re at home, make a little contact with her again. This will, once again, re-establish an affectionate relationship. The goal really is to have sex. If she has sex with you, she will, once again, be emotionally involved with you, because women associate sex with emotions. The trick works for women too — except their goal would be to establish the emotional commitment first.
Anyway, I hope this all helps. Good luck.
Q: Need Help with Ex!!! Please I am Desperate!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: With all the turmoil you are in, I would say yes, you should stay away for a while. It’s really hard to remain friends with an ex unless a lor of time has passed.
I wouldn’t necessarily consider her blessed with things from God. She’s spoiled and so are her siblings. It’s going to be very hard on them when they hear “no” in the real world.
Q: Help With Ex Please! Need Advice! Really Desperate!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: I’d say that you are out of her league. And that’s basically why she dumped you.
Your only advantage of being good at making money is useless to her. Because she already has all the money she needs from her parents. And it’s her parents who have blessed her so much both genetically and with money. It’s nice to have successful parents who take care of you so much.
I suggest that you find a girl who doesn’t have rich parents and who needs the money. And then your advantage of being good with money will make you attractive to her.
Q: Feeling Let Down by Ex-Girlfriend and Confused! Please Help Me!!!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: You gotta give this girl up. I know what you are going through, I think I must have gone through exactly what you’re going through. If she is able to come back to you, then that’d be great. But the odds are against it, and you’ll find peace quicker by giving her up totally.
I know it probably kills you to see her now, all happy and without you, and all that. I know its torture, actually.
But you are most likely not meant to be with her, and this energy between you two is just drawn-out stress.
I know you are tired, probably never want to get up early or exercise, and all that… but since you are in business school, just force yourself to keep that whole thing going. You’ll be so happy when you are done, and when your happiness returns you’ll attract different, better, longer lasting girls.
In the mean time, just cope and have fun when you can, but avoid this particular girl. She was put on this earth to test you and delay you. Get past it, I’m tellin you!
Don’t worry about being a “C” student, except for the fact that it means you have to work hard. That part sucks… but the grade itself really doesn’t matter to anyone so long as you get your diploma in the end.
You are in a rough phase. Don’t expect ease or happiness right now. Just drudge through it. Like walking through cold snow to get to a destination. You got your mission and you’ll get there.
As far as the hole in your heart goes, that never goes away, with or without a woman. As long as you are on Earth, you will always have a weird feeling of separation from everything, except on the occasions where you are having a great group experience, like a concert or camping trip that is going great at the time.
But right now, I don’t think anything will make you happy. But I don’t think you’re doomed either. You just gotta get past this dark cloud you are walking though in the evolution of your life.
Give up on this woman, and open yourself to receiving new women, whether they appear in 3 months or 2 years, doesn’t matter really. Long as you just keep moving forward, in hard times like now, and easy times later.
Q: Feeling Depressed because of Money and Ex-Girlfriend! Please help!!!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: It isn’t a matter of not being in her league; it’s a matter of not having the same values. You are a believer and she is not and that only scratches the surface, but it allows me to say this to you: One of the commandments is, “Thou shalt not covet.” It isn’t because you might steal something that you covet, but because you become unhappy comparing yourself to another who has more. There will always be someone with more. She’s your ex, it doesn’t sound like she’ll ever grow up, and now it’s time to make the decision to move along. You’ll be miserable until you DO make that decision, and then it’ll feel like a weight’s been lifted from you. You’ll be much happier with someone who appreciates your talents and how hard you work. She doesn’t, and I don’t think she ever could.
Q: Need Help with Ex-Girlfriend! Please Help!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.
I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible
Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.
The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.
However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.
I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury.
The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.
Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?
A: talk to her if it will be another chance or not then move on if you want to forget about her go on the erasing mode don’t see her don’t call her don’t talk to her until you are completely over her.
Q: my fiancee cheated on me!?
weve been together for nine months…now she is in jail for probation revocation,assualt case the state picked up when she was with her ex..very pretty, a model,doesnt want to work or cant get a good job..has a 3yr old daughter that calls me dad from her ex(babydaddy)..now im the only one she got…i paid a lawyer $2000 just to retain him..bought her an lv purse for vals..bought her a benz. i felt she could enjoy such luxury..she claims she still love me..but i cant hear a sound of deep regret but she tries to shift the blame on me( still in jail)..i wrote her a mean letter..im taking the car back (on my name)..took all her clothes to her mamas house( lied to me it was her house)..she is in jail. im the only one she can call..now i found out through her email she had sex with an older guy at an hotel i rented for us..while i was at work. with no condoms!!..asked her she denies and i have proof!! she only confessed to getting drunk with a neighbor and he gave her oral!!i am shocked
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i went to see her in jail today..after she got my hate email/letter i sent to her in jail..i have been having sleepless night constantly dwelling on this thoughts of her cheating..what drove her to do that? i am going to be honest she said at one point i was using a female friends car to get to work..she got very jealous and thought i was the one cheating..to be honest i got tempted and i have cheated on her b4 but with condoms of course..she doesnt know but says she has a feeling that i cheated and i wasnt paying her attention and she was always sad..yesterday i talked to the guy she cheated on me with at my apt complex and he knows she still love me and always complained bitter about my female friend who was helping out when i was not doing to good last year, they got drunk but he wouldnt say anything after that..i saw her in jail today and she was looking down while i blaste her..then started looking my in the eye telling me she didnt know God and it was me that lead her to God
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she then told me she love me and again i blasted her and asked her what has she accomplished in her life and she couldnt answer..then i asked why with no condoms..she risking my life..now she tell me she 11wk pregnant and its a boy..but i told her it better not be my child and we have to take a dna blood test..i also mentioned to her i am going to chicago once i done this semester with school..I am blessed with a business now and i am content with what i have materially and she has always gave me motivation to work harder but now with she gone in jail and her 3yr old daughter with her mama..i listed to soul music at night and can hardly sleep at a decent hour..i hate she did this to me ..but who can i run to? even if i decide to have sex with other girls i still do not get answer and fulfillment cuz i cant trust people like that..I am a very motivated ….thats her evil, lying ass..what do i do? i dont want her back..but i am lonely even money dont make me happy
A: i think your just as bad as each other if you both have cheated.
and let me just tel you she must be lieing bout the pregnancy cos if she is only 11 weeks pregnant you cant tell if its a boy or girl you find out between 16-18 weeks.
you both need to move on with your lives and start fresh. really you dont wanna be with a woman that has been in jail and already has a 3 yr old daughter that isnt yours
Q: Which Of These Top 10 Songs Do You Do Your Taxes By?
1.)”Taxman” – The Beatles
If you drive a car, I’ll tax the street;
If you try to sit, I’ll tax your seat;
If you get too cold, I’ll tax the heat;
If you take a walk, I’ll tax your feet.
2.)”Movin’ Out” – Billy Joel
3.) “I’d Rather Be Rich” – Chicago
4.) “Money Money Money” – ABBA
5.) “Money” – Pink Floyd
6.) “Low Budget” – The Kinks
7.) “Sunny Afternoon” – The Kinks
8.) “Success Story” – The Who
9.) “Lap of Luxury” – Jethro Tull
10.)”Carnival World” – Jimmy Buffett
By Dave White, About.com
“There Goes My Everything “Dallas Frazier
Most certainly should have been included on the list. Thanks Mister Ed
A: what was that country western song “there goes my only procession there goes everything …..”
Q: Should I buy this Lincoln LS?
http://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/cto/1775922371.html
Okay,so my hyundai tiburon was recently totaled(not my fault btw),so I’m in the market for a new car. I’m only 19 and only have about $3,000 to spend on another car. I fell in love with this one because it has the leather seats and moonroof! & because its a great canvas for me to customize..meaning I can put tints etc without having to fix any other cosmetic problems.
I was wondering if anyone knows if the mileage is too high for this type of car? I hear its a luxury style American made car..but would like to know more.
My tiburon had over 183,000 miles when it got totaled and was running perfect with NO problems whatsoever!
I’d really appreciate all feedback. If its negative,please suggest another make for me to check out!
-Thank you!! =]
P.s
what do u think of this one? much bigger I know. 
http://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/cto/1769949295.html
A: The LS is NOT the Town Car, repeat, the LS is NOT the Town Car! It shares the platform of the Jaguar XJs of the same years (it’s essentially a Jag). My experience is that I’ve gotten 25-27mpg on the highway (LS V8). You’ll be spending a lot more money on gas and insurance for the Explorer. You can also easily get aftermarket parts for the LS if you want to spice it up a bit.
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